Wednesday, July 31, 2013

What is a Philanthropist?

“For Attractive lips, speak words of kindness.
 For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.
 For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.
 For beautiful hair, let a child run their fingers through it once a day.
 For poise, walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone.
 People, more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed. Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you will find one at the end of each of your arms.
 As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself and the other for helping others.”

Sam Levenson



What is a Philanthropist?  That's easy.  A philanthropist is someone who practices philanthropy.  Ok, that was a cheat answer.  Now here is one that will actually explain what I just said.

PHILANTHROPY (as defined by the American Heritage Dictionary of the American Language)
phi·lan·thro·py
n. pl.phi·lan·thro·pies
1. The effort or inclination to increase the well-being of humankind, as by charitable aid or donations.
2. Love of humankind in general.
3. Something, such as an activity or institution, intended to promote human welfare.
In a nutshell, a philanthropist is someone, who through acts of charity, shows a helpful kindness to their fellow mankind.  Whether by donating money, possessions, their time and sometimes it can even be as simple as kind words.
No matter an individuals situation, everyone can use a little philanthropy in their life.  However, there are those that can use it more than others.  One simple charitable push, can be the spark that propels someone towards a brighter future.  Our lives can be controlled by unfortunate circumstances if we allow it to happen.  Some may accept what appears to be and never realize that with just a little effort, the 'appears to be' is just one of many options.  There is so much potential in every human life that so many never get the opportunity to experience.
“There is no exercise better for the heart than reaching down and lifting people up.”
John Holmes
“You have not lived today until you have done something for someone who can never repay you.”
John Bunyan
I've recently been introduced to an organization that is trying to create that spark in individuals through a very original approach.  The organizations name is Christmas 14.  You can check out what they're all about here:
But basically, this is a brief description of what their goal is.
The Christmas Fourteen project was established to change just a little part of our world. It is our goal to help facilitate placing students, who wouldn’t normally be able to afford it, into an accepted and participating martial arts program.   To impact the lives of those that might not normally be able to experience the gift of martial arts. To help provide the world with strong, responsible, productive, driven, and disciplined people that possess the necessary elements of integrity: all the qualities that breed success.
Through the aid of participating martial arts academies and the philanthropy of others, Christmas 14 will change lives and the futures of deserving individuals who may not have otherwise had the chance to meet their fullest potential.
Christmas 14 was created by Sean Patrick Flanery, actor and Black Belt Martial artist.  His determination to help others achieve more from life is seen in not only his Twitter feed ( @seanflanery )  but in his blog as well ( http://www.shineuntiltomorrow.com/ ).  His compassion for helping others has developed him a following , affectionately known as the Twempire.  Sean's Twempirians have, through him, banded together supporting one another in reaching what many of them believed to be "unobtainable goals".
In support of Sean's efforts, a fundraiser was started to help raise funds for Christmas 14.  A T-shirt was designed by the creator of Sean's Internet fan page ( http://www.twempiriansunite.com/ ) and on Twitter ( @twempirians)  The shirt sells for $25 and $15 of each shirt sold goes directly to the Christmas 14 project.  
There is a problem though.  There is a 100 shirt minimum on the sale.  At this moment, 55 shirts have been reserved.  If the goal of 100 shirts is not reached by August 11th, there will be none sold.  All the orders already placed will be cancelled and the project gets nothing.
So what I'm asking is that anyone reading this blog, go check out Christmas 14.   Read Sean's blog.  Take a look at the Tshirt pictured below.  If you like it...Click the link  http://teespring.com/twempirians   If you think it's a good cause...Click the link http://teespring.com/twempirians .   If you believe we can help make a difference in a deserving but less fortunate individuals life.... Click the link and please buy one.  

Tuesday, July 23, 2013

I Was Late Today

I was late for work today.  Not the first time, nor will it be the last.  Or so I assume.   I mean we all have those days where we drag a little slower.  We take a little longer getting ready.  Hit the snooze once or twice.   But eventually we get going.  We get our showers and get dressed.  Maybe have that cup of coffee.  Heck, some of us even give our loved ones a kiss goodbye and tell them we'll see them later.

As much as no one likes to think about it, we really can't make promises that may actually be out of our hands.  We never really know what the day will bring.  We never REALLY know if there will be a later.

I was late for work today.  I know I said that already but I didn't say why.  On the same route I take to work everyday, there was an accident.  I wasn't involved.  It happened almost two hours before I got there.  It involved a woman, age 38 and a man, age 22.  They too were probably just on there way to work, or maybe to a friends.  I don't know, but it doesn't matter where they were headed.  What matters is that they didn't get there.  The young man rear ended the woman's vehicle when she apparently came to a stop in the middle lane of traffic for reasons that are still being investigated.  Her vehicle burst into flames.  She was pulled out and given CPR by a passerby but was pronounced dead at the hospital.  The young man was also taken to the hospital with non-life threatening injuries.

Two individuals that both woke up this morning.  Who may or may not have taken a little longer.  Who may or may not have had that cup of coffee.  Who may or may not have had the chance to kiss their loved ones goodbye.  One of which, who will not see them later or ever again.

A tragedy that regardless the cause, could happen to any of us.  No one knows when they wake up in the morning, if that will be their last day.  If the words spoken to a loved one will be the last words.  It takes tragedy for most of us to see this.  I saw it all too clearly this morning when I drove past the burnt out shell of a vehicle in the middle of the road.  Sure, I was late for work today.  But I'm still able to write about it and that makes being late the least important aspect of my day.

Some day...Somehow...all of our lives come to an end.  Grab hold of your loved ones when you see them.  Tell them how much they mean to you.  Don't let the unimportant things control your life.  Focus on what matters.  Don't be afraid to do things while you still have the opportunity to do them.  We tend to think that the opportunities will always be there.  What we forget is that we won't. 




http://www.nbc40.net/story/22910003/driver-killed-in-parkway-crash

Monday, July 15, 2013

A New Star

A new star to shine
In the sky at night.
Dancing in the heavens
Shining so bright.
A woman of structure.
A woman of class.
A woman full of talents.
My favorite...her sass.
Her wit....beguiling.
Her presence...well known.
She shared herself freely.
Her beauty was our own.
Her star will shine brighter
On her loved ones below.
Giving them comfort
And letting them know.
That even in daylight
When they can't see her here.
She will always be with them.
She will always be near.
Someone locked in your heart
Will be felt, even unseen.
She is with us now and forever.
Sweet, beautiful BadassColleen.

Thursday, July 11, 2013

A Modern Day Fonz

I read an article online today that got me thinking.  The article was actually an interview with Sean Patrick Flanery.  Mr. Flanery was asked several questions in almost a word association fashion and he gave his responses with his usual honest candor.  One of the responses he was asked for was in reference to his friend and fellow actor, Norman Reedus. 
Anyone that is familiar with the duo of Flanery and Reedus, known as Flandus to their fans, would not be the least bit surprised to the complimentary nature of Mr Flanery's reply.

(Whole interview found here..  http://www.nylonguysmag.com/catching-up-with-sean-patrick-flannery/  )


Norman Reedus
A dear friend. My boy sat Mark McGwire down with his hellacious swing & he cracked a fast ball outta the park & over the center field fence with his role in The Walking Dead. He’s riding a one-handed wheelie with that character. Its killer. He’s Fonzie. He’s a stud.

Comparing Mr. Reedus to the one and only legendary Arthur Fonzarelli, is quite a compliment indeed.  The man, played by the fabulous Henry Winkler, is an icon.  As I was growing up, there wasn't a soul that didn't know who the Fonz was.  That charismatic smile, and the sound of a single syllable was forever branded to the character, thanks to the talents of an incredible actor.  I mean...who didn't try to turn things on with the bang of a fist?  Ayyyyyyyy...I know I did.
Mr. Reedus has given that same empowerment to his role of Daryl Dixon on AMC's The Walking Dead.  A show based off of a comic book, that has grown to be one of the most popular television series on cable AND regular television.  The role of Daryl Dixon was not even in the comic book series, but thanks, once again, to the talents of an incredible actor, the role has exploded into a television phenomenon.
As far as Mr. Flanery's assessment comparing his friend to a modern day Fonz, some may say he is biased due to the friendship he has with Mr. Reedus.  I obviously agree with his assessment, but I decided to provide a few visual aides to bring more light upon the comparison.

VISUAL AIDE #1
THE SALUTE
The Fonzie Thumbs up and the Reedus Salute are both equally synonymous to their presenter.  A gestured greeting of good will that fans adore.






VISUAL AIDE #2
THE MOTORCYCLE
I'm sorry, but not many would disagree to the coolness factor going on here.  Guys want to be like them and girls wanted to be riding on those bikes behind them.




VISUAL AIDE #3

THE SHADES

No explanation required :-)





VISUAL AIDE#4
TONGUE PORN
Again....... No explanation required.


VISUAL AIDE #5

WHAT WOULD THEY DO?

Well I don't know about you... But I don't know of anyone walking around in a shirt that says "What Would Vanessa Do?"  Face it...you are beyond cool when you land on mass market clothing wear.







VISUAL AIDE #6

RICHIE CUNNINGHAM

Of course the cool "bad" guy has the goodie goodie side kick and best friend




And this leads me to last, but not least....

VISUAL AIDE #7

SEAN PATRICK FLANERY

See.....this right here is all the proof anyone could ever need.  Sean IS Norman's very own Richie Cunningham. :-) (No comments about the Goodie, Goodie sidekick part.  Y'all know what I mean.)





There you have it.  Right before your own eyes.  Visual proof that demonstrates how Norman Reedus's portrayal of Daryl Dixon has earned a pretty solid comparison to the equally amazing portrayal of The Fonz played by the forever infamous Henry Winkler.  Both amazing actors who not only play/played their role...but own it as well.